so one night my boy/f's cell phone rings.. he doesnt hear it but i did.. then there was a voice mail. and when my boyfriend was in the shower i checked it.. ( i dont know why) but it was this girl that works with him.. actually he's her boss!! and she was dunk and then another guy got on the phone. they both were slurring there words but at the end she said i know your with your girlfriend and your sleeping sorry.. and i swear she said after that';shes not good enough for you'; its either that or shes good enough for you. and then she said sorry after and said bye and hung up. what should i do..?? and knows now that i checked it but .. it bothers me still..what should i do?What should i do, this girl who works as a co-op at my boyfriends job called him drunk one night?!!?
I dont think you have anything to be worrid about. There is always some drunk girl that wants attention from somebody elses man because she cant get it herself from anybody. Obviously, she knows that you are his girlfriend, and she had another guy with her that could have possibly been her boyfriend or something. I wouldnt be worried if i were you, im assuming she didnt say anything like, ';oh the sex last night was great'; ';so when are you leaving your girlfriend for me'; because if she did say any of that, yes that would give you reason to worry. But by her saying ';shes not good enough for you'; that just shows that shes jealous and wants what you have. You need to trust your boyfriend that he wont do anything, because this girl could be all over him like white on rice, and he would probably say no, he cant help if some girl calls him drunk at night, and if he really wanted to hide something from you he would have taken his phone with him, or put his phone on silent concealing any calls/text messages. DONT WORRY! Its needless stress because it sounds like nothing is going on. I hope everything works out for you, good luck!What should i do, this girl who works as a co-op at my boyfriends job called him drunk one night?!!?
Stop being so nosy...you caused this drama and made yourself feel insecure and proved to you BF that you don't trust him and that you can not be trusted...Hopefully you'll learn your lesson from the fact that this is all eating you up inside...Communicate with your boyfriend and apologize for invading his privacy and try to respect his personal space from now on. Trust is earned. You broke the bond of trust by listening to his messages and you can't hold him responsible for your actions.
I used to have a woman call me at 2 or 3 in the morning and want to talk for an hour. She and I were supervisors at the same place, and what she wanted to talk about had nothing to do with work. My ex-wife finally got fed up and the next time she called I told her we would continue the conversation at work the next day. She never called back after that.
This is the price you pay for snooping. You have to always make up your mind what your prepared to do BEFORE you snoop and find something that can be harmful to you or the relationship. If you did not suspect of him cheating before you invaded his privacy...I say let it go. If you did suspect him....I still can not say that this is credible evidence...especially since she was drunk. Learn YOUR lesson and do not snoop unless your prepared to deal with the consequences.
first of all , you should find out how did she get the number , i dont give mine to anybody , and i dont ask for one either
tell him that he needs to put her in her place. you dont appreciate him getting phone calls from his drunk female boss. he needs to put her in her place and keep it at a professional level. ask him what would he want you to do if it was your male boss
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